So weeks later as we unpack to get the art studio in order set up, we stumbled upon a nicely framed professional photo of MIL&Co. They appeared older than we remembered. A good looking couple in their mid 70’s, enjoying life….and that smile… “Throw it into the fire.” shouted Chaos. “Think of the guilt..” Control reminded. Growth...
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Folly: Sons of Narcissistic Mothers
This is the point where we realize we know a lot about Narcissistic Mothers and their daughters but we neglected to consider the effects Narcissistic Mothers have on their sons. Ah the shortsightedness of we of the Schizoic Personality Enhancement. We, of course accept this burden as an adaptation to extremely adverse conditions visited upon helpless children...
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Resources The Narcissistic Mother Broken Sons of Narcissistic Mothers/ Sons of Narcissistic Mothers/ Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Symptoms Causes/ Researching “crazy” and “crazy-makers” on the Internet is like researching mystery symptoms on the Internet, then becoming a hypochondriac and refusing to recognize symptoms of hypochondria. In other words, everybody’s got a little crazy in them. But… when you can...
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Shitholes and Shinola While the shit-storm rages over shit-hole countries, our mind wandered to some queries we made a few years ago as to the racial break-down of “Best Cities in which to Live” best States, best Countries which prompted us to gather some data in a neat little visual to display what is most often referred...
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Chapter 10 Life in the Fat Lane When Chaos Strikes, instead of settling for “just this once”, send memories of heartburn. When thoughts of comfort food trigger anxiety or Bad memories or regrets, mentally place the thoughts in a box, seal it tight & play Kick the can Kick it down the road for futher contemplation for...
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Chapter 9 Life in the Fat Lane Reset Your Own Memory Matrix Realize all compromise between Control & Chaos thus far are solutions to conflicts using tools available at the moment of past incidences and have no bearing upon current contentions, arguments or conflicts. The purpose or matrix of your original brain at conception was to absorb...
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Chapter 8 Life in the Fat Lane And because this is a WAR Chaos responds with thoughts of chocolate bars and comfort foods reinforced by media input. It is up to us to Decide Who is the Decider Just like the Highlander, there can be only one. The choice is ours to make. THE DECIDER The Control Freak...
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Chapter 7 Life in the Fat Lane Chapter 6 explained why criticism hurts more than compliments help. What can we do about that? The virtual Battleship game ensues. Control Side Chaos Side 3 omnipotent hot-air ships 3 omnipotent hot-air ships 4 self-absorbed cruisers 4 self-centered cruisers 2 introvert submarines 2 exhibitionist submarines 1 nudist resents attention destroyer...
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Chapter 6 Life in the Fat Lane War on Fat may not be won through: Consumption of any food, drink Drugs Surgery Exercise Knowledge External Forces Understand the Rules of War have changed In 1954, the limbic cortex was described by neuroanatomists as “the Lizard Brain”. The limbic system of the brain exists as the seat of...
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Chapter 5 Life in the Fat lane Fast Food TV Ads Race for the money! 1970 Fast food market reaches $6 billion 2015 Fast Food market exceeds $570 Bilion Which is over a 10,000 % increase. By the age of 11 most American children view 615 Fast Food television advertisments annually. Synergetic Marketers Utilize Psychology and Colors...
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