Folly: Does Not Compute

Add to the Mystery Question: why doesn't he seem to care? Bigger Q: Why doesn't he seem to care that he doesn't seem to care? Is this a guy thing?…

Folly: Ask The Right Question

Ask ourselves again for the millionth time What could make us not talk to our kids ever again? What crime too heinous What perversion too unforgivable Head to toe tattoos…

Folly: Back to Perfect Storm

So weeks later as we unpack to get the art studio in order set up, we stumbled upon a nicely framed professional photo of MIL&Co. They appeared older than we…

Folly: Sons of Narcissistic Mothers

This is the point where we realize we know a lot about Narcissistic Mothers and their daughters but we neglected to consider the effects Narcissistic Mothers have on their sons.…

Folly: Narcissistic Parents Resources & References

Resources The Narcissistic Mother Broken Sons of Narcissistic Mothers/ Sons of Narcissistic Mothers/ Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Symptoms Causes/ Researching "crazy" and "crazy-makers" on the Internet is like researching mystery symptoms on…
Marriage of Shit and Shinola

Marriage of Shit and Shinola

Shitholes and Shinola While the shit-storm rages over shit-hole countries, our mind wandered to some queries we made a few years ago as to the racial break-down of “Best Cities…
Mind map our vexes

Change the Record

Chapter 10 Life in the Fat Lane When Chaos Strikes, instead of settling for “just this once”, send memories of heartburn. When thoughts of comfort food trigger anxiety or Bad…
Ba Dum, Dum. Timing is Everything

Ba Dum, Dum. Timing is Everything

Chapter 9 Life in the Fat Lane Reset Your Own Memory Matrix Realize all compromise between Control & Chaos thus far are solutions to conflicts using tools available at the…
Decide Who Decides

Decide Who Decides

Chapter 8 Life in the Fat Lane And because this is a WAR Chaos responds with thoughts of chocolate bars and comfort foods reinforced by media input. It is up…
Battleship Brain Games

Battleship Brain Games

Chapter 7 Life in the Fat Lane Chapter 6 explained why criticism hurts more than compliments help. What can we do about that? The virtual Battleship game ensues. Control Side…