As we peruse through the footprints left by our anestors we begin to understand why we are how we are, more or less. It seems we are fortunate that our ancestors kept written records of births, deaths and marriages among other things...
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Imaginary Enemies
Imaginary Enemies Go back through history of talk shows from when television began, talk shows like Johnny Carson, Comedy Roasts, sitcoms . Study it for yourself, it’s all out there. Some of it justified, sure but regardless a steady drumbeat against individual...
Continue reading...2D Thinking vs 3D Thinking
Fast Thinking vs Slow Thinking Ever listen to a fast talking person and wish they’d just take a freaking breath long enough for you to process what they said before they go charging into their next subject? We find fast talkers exhausting...
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visualize what vexes you
The Theory of Pat is a gradual process which will expand as we work out that which vexes us most. The mysteries of our past, present and future. Theory of Pat is where Me, Myself and I become We, Ourselves and Us....
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The Struggle Between Me, Myself and I The inner self, the endless chatter, constant questions, what is our purpose, what should we do, why do we do, think, and say. What is personality? Is our personality that what we believe or that...
Continue reading...Victims of Chronic Introspection
It occurred to us that in order to better explain our healing process we should illustrate characters to represent our own personal ERG. Control: represents the tough bitch who despises Chaos. Growth: Me Chaos: Represents imagination, creativity, curiosity and mortal enemy of...
Continue reading...When Scizoid Personalities Collide
Beginning: Not too long ago we experienced a purpose of life crisis, Thinking about loss, regret, couldabeens Mom, Dad, Grandma Old friends long gone Kids regrets Reinventing ourselves A bit hormonal Nerves on edge sort of stuff and then the Perfect Storm....
Continue reading...A Philosophic Comedy
Not in this Love story however: When Schizoid Personalities Collide: Philosophic Comedy, by Pat. This is the time in our relationship where the “We need a hug” mood (illustrated) super collides with the clueless self-absorbed enigma wrapped in an unemotional nutshell...
Continue reading...Pseudo-Mutuality, The Good years
It was a good week for pseudo-mutuality. The art of conflict resolution by waiting for it to go away. This is how we resolve our co-emotional problems. Fantasy Rules
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Fantasy gets us into a lot of trouble. Dreamworld is our world. Fantasy helps us connect the dots of life events. Everyone fantasies But What choice do we have we live inside our brains. Unique little universes walking around on two legs...
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