Division of Chores In a civilized society, a modicum of grooming and maintenance is required for an individual to successfully exist. This means some chores are required for everyone, man, woman or child, rich or poor. Chores are how we learn the habits of grooming and maintenance. Definition of a Chore: 1. a routine task or job...
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Compartmentalization, the narcissism of rejection
Compartmentalization, the narcissism of rejection, prevents introspection. Chaos reminds this is where shadows communicate through fear and intimidation.shadows repeat the same script everywhere. Compartmentalization is how the brain Compartmentalization is a form of psychological defense mechanism in which thoughts and feelings that seem to conflict are kept separated or isolated from each other in the mind. per...
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The Struggle Between Me, Myself and I The inner self, the endless chatter, constant questions, what is our purpose, what should we do, why do we do, think, and say. What is personality? Is our personality that what we believe or that what we portray? What are we not allowing ourself to know? The Theory of Pat...
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A self-forgiving process. There are two places where we send unwanted, unresolvable thoughts and memories for a good reason. Anxiety producing useless, unresolvable memories that involve loved ones, deceased relatives, pets. Golden Palace – The Palace of Wonderfulness from which there is no return. Forever banned to the palace Where every needs or want is met Where...
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It occurred to us that in order to better explain our healing process we should illustrate characters to represent our own personal ERG. Control: represents the tough bitch who despises Chaos. Growth: Me Chaos: Represents imagination, creativity, curiosity and mortal enemy of Control. Together we are victims of chronic introspection, incurably infected with the WSC virus, (Woulda,...
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Lastly if we’re feeling particularly vulnerable, sad, picked on or un-cared for, we visualize ourselves as young as possibly into infancy, cradled in the arms of two perfect parents we retreat to a quiet, safe place uninterrupted. 3:00 in the morning usually works for us as these two warring idiots do seem to love to torment our...
Continue reading...Folly: When Scizoid Personalities Collide
Beginning: Not too long ago we experienced a purpose of life crisis, Thinking about loss, regret, couldabeens Mom, Dad, Grandma Old friends long gone Kids regrets Reinventing ourselves A bit hormonal Nerves on edge sort of stuff and then the Perfect Storm. The love of our life walked into the room Smack into a cloud of pure,...
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Not in this Love story however: When Schizoid Personalities Collide: Philosophic Comedy This is the time in our relationship where the “We need a hug” mood (illustrated) super collides with the clueless self-absorbed enigma wrapped in an unemotional nutshell smothered in a petty coat of resentment who battles inanimate objects and would throw themselves into volcanoes before...
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It was a good week for pseudo-mutuality. The art of conflict resolution by waiting for it to go away. This is how we resolve our co-emotional problems. Fantasy Rules
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Fantasy gets us into a lot of trouble. Dreamworld is our world. Fantasy helps us connect the dots of life events. Everyone fantasies But What choice do we have we live inside our brains. Unique little universes walking around on two legs with unlimited space available. We can’t get into each other’s heads physically. The best we...
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