Ask ourselves again for the millionth time What could make us not talk to our kids ever again? What crime too heinous What perversion too unforgivable Head to toe tattoos and piercings …. that one would be hard.Then we realized we are asking the wrong question.It’s NOT about we, it’s about he! The Real Question What was...
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Folly: Back to Perfect Storm
So weeks later as we unpack to get the art studio in order set up, we stumbled upon a nicely framed professional photo of MIL&Co. They appeared older than we remembered. A good looking couple in their mid 70’s, enjoying life….and that smile… “Throw it into the fire.” shouted Chaos. “Think of the guilt..” Control reminded. Growth...
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This is the point where we realize we know a lot about Narcissistic Mothers and their daughters but we neglected to consider the effects Narcissistic Mothers have on their sons. Ah the shortsightedness of we of the Schizoic Personality Enhancement. We, of course accept this burden as an adaptation to extremely adverse conditions visited upon helpless children...
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Resources The Narcissistic Mother Broken Sons of Narcissistic Mothers/ Sons of Narcissistic Mothers/ Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Symptoms Causes/ Researching “crazy” and “crazy-makers” on the Internet is like researching mystery symptoms on the Internet, then becoming a hypochondriac and refusing to recognize symptoms of hypochondria. In other words, everybody’s got a little crazy in them. But… when you can...
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Memories of Mother We seem to agree that traumatic and bad memories save in the brain like snapshots displayed in photo albums. Fond, loving memories wisp away into pleasant thoughts and feelings of favorite foods, places, people reinforced through memento, photo, art, music, books, literature, movies, media. Traumatic memories have their purpose, mostly survival. Trauma calls for...
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The Brain on Fear – Tackle Your Fears Brain Palace Survival The primary function of the brain is to ensure survival of the host…you. Fido, the brain’s attentive guard puppy is determined, to the best of its ability, to get you through whatever unsafe situation arises. Cognition From infancy, parents, community, tradition, religion, science, ists and isms...
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Theory of Pat The goal of The Theory of Pat is to talk about me, myself and I but in the plural as in multi personality based entirely upon science! We will blind you…and make you see yourself in new … improves… Jesus, it’s obvious we haven’t really thought this through. It’s a real struggle for anyone...
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Diversity According to Hollywood Chaos tells us that the world maps presented to humans residing in the great pool are not accurate representations of life on Earth. Plato, Chaos explains, was Right The breakdown of civilization begins with alien 1% ers who reside within a protected zone in the Exosphere constructed entirely of gold. 1 percenters scatter...
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What does this mean to have value for a person, place or thing or to have no value of same? Our own Mother held no value for us. We developed a relationship with Mother only after introducing a product need, service or atonement we could fulfill to gain her approval. Emphasis on atonement. Do humans have a...
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Call of the Wild Some time ago Chaos got us embrouled with a facebook rant by a shadow who was infuriated that an owl had snatched his pet squirrel and flew is away into oblivion. Seems he had emotional connections with the beast after having rescued it from certain death as a baby and nurtured for many,...
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