Theory Of Pat

It was a good week for pseudo-mutuality. The art of conflict resolution by waiting for it to go away. This is how we resolve our co-emotional problems.   Fantasy Rules

Fantasy gets us into a lot of trouble. Dreamworld is our world. Fantasy helps us connect the dots of life events. Everyone fantasies But What choice do we have we…

Here's the deal. We know what created us, We were raised by wolves. We get that Spent early life in survival mode ready to duck and cover in case things…

We met in night school college art class 1975 Tall, Clint Eastwood looking dude, smart, nice guy, polite, well dressed, strong, silent, responsible type. Shared interests in art, science fiction,…

We held onto fantasy Dad for 9 years... during which time we constructed a brand new fantasy. Regret passing up on Wayne and his Mother Chance to live life in…

About a year into wedded bliss we invite MIL & Co over for 4th July weekend. We are in 7th heaven. Kids, teenagers playing in the backyard pool, Grown ups…

Next morning bright & early W springs out of bed, showers and goes to have coffee with the folks. Comes back a minute later. Face ashen. MIL & Co have…

A few silent, uneventful months pass. We are working in home office and hear a noise outside. We rise to look out the window and see MIL & Co's truck…

Add to the Mystery Question: why doesn't he seem to care? Bigger Q: Why doesn't he seem to care that he doesn't seem to care? Is this a guy thing?…