Posted inTheory Of Pat
Why Theory of Pat?
The Struggle Between Me, Myself and I The inner self, the endless chatter, constant questions, what is our purpose, what should we do, why do we do, think, and say. …
Posted inTheory Of Pat
Victims of Chronic Introspection
It occurred to us that in order to better explain our healing process we should illustrate characters to represent our own personal ERG. Control: represents the tough bitch who despises…
Posted inFolly of Self
Folly: When Scizoid Personalities Collide
Beginning: Not too long ago we experienced a purpose of life crisis, Thinking about loss, regret, couldabeens Mom, Dad, Grandma Old friends long gone Kids regrets Reinventing ourselves A bit…
Posted inFolly of Self
Folly: A Philosophic Comedy
Not in this Love story however: When Schizoid Personalities Collide: Philosophic Comedy This is the time in our relationship where the “We need a hug” mood (illustrated) super collides with…
Posted inFolly of Self
Folly: Pseudo-Mutuality, The Good years
It was a good week for pseudo-mutuality. The art of conflict resolution by waiting for it to go away. This is how we resolve our co-emotional problems. Fantasy Rules
Posted inFolly of Self
Folly: Fantasy Rules
Fantasy gets us into a lot of trouble. Dreamworld is our world. Fantasy helps us connect the dots of life events. Everyone fantasies But What choice do we have we…
Posted inFolly of Self
Folly: Raised By Wolves
Here's the deal. We know what created us, We were raised by wolves. We get that Spent early life in survival mode ready to duck and cover in case things…
Posted inFolly of Self
Folly: Love of Art
We met in night school college art class 1975 Tall, Clint Eastwood looking dude, smart, nice guy, polite, well dressed, strong, silent, responsible type. Shared interests in art, science fiction,…
Posted inFolly of Self
Folly: New & Improved Life Achieved
Re-connected with W's family Aunts, Uncles, Cousins We remembered them all and they remembered us. It was just like yesterday, only 10 years later. Convinced we had made the right…
Posted inFolly of Self
Folly: New Fantasy is Born
We held onto fantasy Dad for 9 years... during which time we constructed a brand new fantasy. Regret passing up on Wayne and his Mother Chance to live life in…