The Theory of Pat is a gradual process which will expand as we work out the mysteries of our past, present and future. We chose to share as we learn and practice how to navigate our own impulsive and irrational thoughts so we may help others better defend against those who work to exploit weakness.
Fantasy gets us into a lot of trouble. Dreamworld is our world. Fantasy helps us connect the dots of life events. Everyone fantasies But What choice do we have we…
Here's the deal. We know what created us, We were raised by wolves. We get that Spent early life in survival mode ready to duck and cover in case things…
We met in night school college art class 1975 Tall, Clint Eastwood looking dude, smart, nice guy, polite, well dressed, strong, silent, responsible type. Shared interests in art, science fiction,…
Re-connected with W's family Aunts, Uncles, Cousins We remembered them all and they remembered us. It was just like yesterday, only 10 years later. Convinced we had made the right…
We held onto fantasy Dad for 9 years... during which time we constructed a brand new fantasy. Regret passing up on Wayne and his Mother Chance to live life in…
About a year into wedded bliss we invite MIL & Co over for 4th July weekend. We are in 7th heaven. Kids, teenagers playing in the backyard pool, Grown ups…
Next morning bright & early W springs out of bed, showers and goes to have coffee with the folks. Comes back a minute later. Face ashen. MIL & Co have…
Ask ourselves again for the millionth time What could make us not talk to our kids ever again? What crime too heinous What perversion too unforgivable Head to toe tattoos…