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Chapter 7 Life in the Fat Lane
Chapter 6 explained why criticism hurts more than compliments help. What can we do about that?
The virtual Battleship game ensues.
Control Side | Chaos Side |
3 omnipotent hot-air ships | 3 omnipotent hot-air ships |
4 self-absorbed cruisers | 4 self-centered cruisers |
2 introvert submarines | 2 exhibitionist submarines |
1 nudist resents attention destroyer | 1 nudist demands attention destroyer |
Chaos seeks the compliment, emotions create upwell of feel-good emotions, simulations and excitement which Chaos bombard enmass into Control’s defenses until a sinks three ships and forces the win. It’s all good, let those endorphins and the good times roll. Control subdued.
Until the critique.
At which Control bombards into Chaos battlefield a barrage of
- I told you so’s
- Negative waves
- Reminders of past failures disappointments
Result
Endorphins extinguished, depression achieved, control restored
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The Theory of Pat is a gradual process which will expand as we work out the mysteries of our past, present and future. We chose to share as we learn and practice how to navigate our own impulsive and irrational thoughts so we may help others better defend against those who work to exploit weakness.